February 2021
Do you know what self-talk is?
Do you know what self-talk is? It is your thoughts, the way you talk to yourself. Get your child to try someof these!
Another great testimonial from a happy mother today…
Another great testimonial from a happy mother today... 'We just want to thank Ian for the help he gave us at a really difficult time. The tips and advice he gave managed to turn things [...]
We need each other more than ever right now!
We need each other more than ever right now! This month let's focus on reaching out to connect with others and doing our best to be a good friend. Our acts of kindness and connection [...]
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NLP4Kids – Articles & Videos
I’m going to be discussing today how to make sure that you are creating the best possible environment and circumstances for young people. In my therapy clinic, when I meet families for the first time, they might talk about different sorts of challenges that they’re having with the[…] The post Building Trust & Communication with Young People first appeared on NLP4Kids | Children Therapy, Child Counselling, Self Esteem. [...]
Sometimes we know what the problem is but are just too tired or distracted by other things to be able to do anything much about it. The problem with putting things off (and hoping eventually they’ll just sort themselves out) is that it is costing you more energy[…] The post The Beetle in Your Shoe: Parents and Professionals first appeared on NLP4Kids | Children Therapy, Child Counselling, Self Esteem. [...]
The post How to Ask for Help (Without Making it Weird!): Children and Young People first appeared on NLP4Kids | Children Therapy, Child Counselling, Self Esteem. [...]
Have you ever wondered if mental health problems could be, in some way, contagious? I’m sure you have noticed that your own possibly negative or even dysfunctional psychological state could be picked up from the young people that you interact with and at times it’s like a[…] The post Embracing Good Mental Health in Children & Young People first appeared on NLP4Kids | Children Therapy, Child Counselling, Self Esteem. [...]
We are currently living in unprecedented times and it is incredible to think about what our children are experiencing when we often struggle to process it ourselves as adults! With the ever-changing nature of the coronavirus pandemic, it can be difficult to predict what the future will look[…] The post 5 Tips For Coping With Back To School Anxiety first appeared on NLP4Kids | Children Therapy, Child Counselling, Self Esteem. [...]
Why is there a sullen, stand-offish, lanky human grunting in response to me where my happy, loving, cute and communicative child once stood? As a Mum to a teenager, I am sure I am experiencing the same challenges as many of you are facing too. You are not[…] The post The Trouble With Teenagers first appeared on NLP4Kids | Children Therapy, Child Counselling, Self Esteem. [...]
Do you have an enemy, a frenemy or a sibling you constantly compete with? If so this video is for you! Whilst I can’t teach you how to become best buddies, I have got some helpful tactic to reduce the amount of tension between you and prevent the[…] The post How to Stop Hatin’: Children and Young People first appeared on NLP4Kids | Children Therapy, Child Counselling, Self Esteem. [...]
If you know a young person who relies a lot on you or others to solve their problems, you’ll find some helpful suggestions in this video that will help them to become more independent in their thinking. However, at times, young people come to us to help them[…] The post Encouraging a Problem Solving Attitude: Parents and Professionals first appeared on NLP4Kids | Children Therapy, Child Counselling, Self Esteem. [...]
I’d like to share with you how we use behaviour plans and boundary setting and to some extent, discipline to really change and improve the quality of interaction that we’re having with our young people alongside the NLP for children interventions we offer. I’m going to be using[…] The post Setting Boundaries first appeared on NLP4Kids | Children Therapy, Child Counselling, Self Esteem. [...]
I want to talk to you today about the label of slow learning. For some children, they do not keep up with their peers in aspect of their development and those children may be referred to as a slower learner or they may be given some other more[…] The post The label of ‘Slow Learning’ first appeared on NLP4Kids | Children Therapy, Child Counselling, Self Esteem. [...]